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At 13 years old, Aselefech Evans told someone in DC that she was Ethiopian, but she was Oromo. They told her not to say that. She did not understand why then. It took until her mid-thirties to understand the political persecution behind that instruction, and to finally claim the identity that her own community had told her to bury.

Aselefech Evans is an Arsi Oromo psychotherapist, Ethiopian adoptee, community organizer, and co-editor of Lions Roaring Far From Home, the first anthology of stories by Ethiopian adoptees, told in their own words. She was raised by white parents in the DC metro area, home to the largest Ethiopian population outside of Ethiopia, and still spent decades searching for the part of herself she had been told not to name.

In this episode

  • Why Oromo people were told to call themselves Ethiopian, and the political suppression behind it
  • How COVID forced her to face trauma her body had been holding since the orphanage
  • The eating disorder that brought her to death's door, and what it was actually about
  • Running into her godmother at the Seattle airport after 18 years at the moment she needed her most
  • Why reunion with biological family is not closure, it actually magnifies the pain
  • Her biggest Oromo flex, and why she rides horses in every country she visits
  • Lions Roaring Far From Home and how every book sale goes back into the Ethiopian adoptee community
  • Cooking from berbere her mother made in Ethiopia, and almost falling down into tears

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