How Can a García Not Speak Spanish?

Tami Dee García

August 12, 2026 · 14 min

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Tami has heard the question her whole life. Black woman, Spanish last name, no Spanish. People decided that meant she wasn't really Dominican. In this episode, she tells her full heritage story for the first time, not as the host asking the questions, but as the one answering them.

This is a conversation about growing up disconnected from a Dominican and Jamaican heritage, what her grandmother's choice to leave New York cost the generations after her, what Howard University gave her, and how she built Ethiopian cultural connection for her daughter around a heritage that isn't originally her own.

In this episode

  • Why a last name was never proof of anything
  • The elementary school moment that made her stop sharing who she was
  • What her grandmother's survival cost the generations after her
  • How Howard University changed how she saw herself
  • Building Ethiopian cultural connection for a daughter whose heritage isn't hers
  • The answer she now gives when someone questions her heritage

Have a story about your heritage?

Reconnecting, discovering something new, or deciding what to pass on? I’d love to hear it.