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Hilary Giovale was 40 years old when she opened a genealogy book at her parents' house and found the names of people her family had enslaved, with dollar amounts next to their names. She had hardly slept when she sat down for breakfast the next morning. Her parents shrugged. She called it the amnesia of whiteness.

That night was the beginning of eight years of writing, reparations work, and reclaiming a European heritage she never knew she had. Hilary gives every dollar her book makes to two reparations organizations. She works with an ancestor altar almost every day. And she has been learning Gaelic songs and Celtic ceremonies as a way of finding out who her people were before colonization swept through.

This episode is about what it looks like to face the hardest parts of your family story and turn it into something good.

In this episode

  • The book in the closet: finding the names of enslaved people with dollar amounts on the page
  • The amnesia of whiteness: why so many white families do not know what is in their history
  • Giving every dollar away: what personal reparations actually looks like in practice
  • The altar epiphany: their blood is my blood, their bones are my bones
  • Reclaiming European heritage: Gaelic songs, Celtic ceremonies, and recovering ancestral memory
  • One step anyone can take today to begin reconnecting with their ancestors

About Hilary Giovale

Hilary's personal reparations plan guide: link coming soon

Hilary's book: Becoming a Good Relative: Calling White Settlers toward Truth, Healing, and Repair

Have a story about your heritage?

Reconnecting, discovering something new, or deciding what to pass on? I’d love to hear it.